知's profile 通 经 断 纬PhotosBlogListsMore Tools Help

Blog


    七日女佣

           朋友一家要去印尼游玩一周,女佣不知如何安置,商量结果是放到我家来。老公放下电话告知我这个消息,我愣了愣:“她住哪儿啊?”我家的佣人房已经被我利用成了晾衣间,一间准备用作书房兼客房的屋子目前空空如也,连个床垫也没有。佣人房是这边一般公寓房必有的格局,在我看来简直就是虐待:整个房间还没一张双人床宽(我家的佣人房还不算小的)。第一次来新加坡找房子的时候,我当那是杂物间,心想这房子设计还真是周到,只是不明白为什么杂物间旁有一个那么mini的洗手间。后来agent介绍说是佣人房,我当时惊讶的说不出话来。那个agent当时肯定当我是没当过主子少见多怪的中国人,告诉我说有佣人房已经算是条件不错了,有的家里没有单独的佣人房那么佣人就得睡客厅,如果主人回家晚或是看电视看到很晚佣人就得更晚睡觉,早上还要更早起以便在主人起床之前把客厅收拾好。我真是长见识了,在这个文明发达的现代社会竟有如此不假掩饰的阶级分明,多少让人觉得有点变态。据说在新加坡,目前约有17%左右的家庭聘请女佣,女佣的工作包括煮饭、清洁和看护老幼。绝大部分女佣住在雇主家中。在香港,女佣是受主流劳工法管理,每星期都有休息日等福利。而在新加坡,一直没有立法给外国女佣法定休息日。

           坦白讲,最初老公告诉我住在新加坡可以请女佣,从此我不用自己动手做家务时我是欢欣鼓舞的,大力赞成举家迁来狮城。不过来了之后多了一些对女佣生活的了解,感觉不知怎么又变得有点复杂。所以,对于这个免费的七日女佣的到来,我还真说不上是高兴还是别扭。打小在社会主义国家长大,人人平等思想根深蒂固。说得上“伺候”过我的也就是我的家人,在美国坐月子的时候请过一个中国月嫂吧,最后还把我气个半死差点得产后忧郁症。罢了,一来是帮朋友忙,二来呢说不定什么时候我们也会需要一个女佣,算是先感受一下和女佣的相处吧。于是我和老公决定让女佣来了睡那间空的客房,不过她得自己带床垫来了。

    Comments (2)

    Please wait...
    Sorry, the comment you entered is too long. Please shorten it.
    You didn't enter anything. Please try again.
    Sorry, we can't add your comment right now. Please try again later.
    To add a comment, you need permission from your parent. Ask for permission
    Your parent has turned off comments.
    Sorry, we can't delete your comment right now. Please try again later.
    You've exceeded the maximum number of comments that can be left in one day. Please try again in 24 hours.
    Your account has had the ability to leave comments disabled because our systems indicate that you may be spamming other users. If you believe that your account has been disabled in error please contact Windows Live support.
    Complete the security check below to finish leaving your comment.
    The characters you type in the security check must match the characters in the picture or audio.

    To add a comment, sign in with your Windows Live ID (if you use Hotmail, Messenger, or Xbox LIVE, you have a Windows Live ID). Sign in


    Don't have a Windows Live ID? Sign up

    bingjie dingwrote:
    恩 看来要人伺候也不见得很舒服。可能跟称呼也有关。女佣听着别扭,还是国内的保姆、小时工听着顺耳。
    Sept. 21
    rita ritawrote:
    富婆生活马上来了,哈哈哈。
    Sept. 20

    Trackbacks

    The trackback URL for this entry is:
    http://sewingbox.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!76C4A45825531AF9!609.trak
    Weblogs that reference this entry
    • None